Being Rejected
Good day guys. I still know some of you are busy so I think this could be a great time to entertain you (especially to my readers outside my school). Today, I am here to share with you things about being rejected. Why you are rejected and How to recover from it. This will be also my first advice blog. Without further ado, let's get this started.
What is rejection? based on Merriam- Webster Dictionary, the action of rejecting or the state of being rejected, and based on Merriam- Webster Dictionary rejected is not given approval or acceptance. To sum it up, rejection really means that you are not accepted or given by a certain person.
Let's proceed to why you are rejected. The primary reason is you don't reach his or her standards. Let's just say that your crush likes a mature and serious person that has a pleasing personality, but you are a childish and happy person that has no looks to be proud of (but you have oozing confidence). There is a higher chance that he or she will reject you, even if you have given 1000% off efforts to make him or her happy. I'm not saying that the traits that I mention are bad (well that is my primary trait), but let's face it, you can't please all the people. Another reason is your crush has a boyfriend or girlfriend. I will not tell you about that stuff because I don't know that, but it will really lead up to the primary reason. To summarize, you are rejected because HE OR SHE DON'T LIKE YOU (ouch).
Lastly, how to recover from rejection. First, you need to accept. You need to accept that there are some things that you can't get even if you want it. You also need to accept your flaws and the best part, you need to accept that you are unique. You are different. You are loved. It's also okay to cry. It is the primary reaction when you are rejected. But, remember this: CRY NOW, FIGHT LATER. Even if you are sad, you need to face it and continue life. Next, focus your sights on the things that you love. Your family, your friends, your hobbies and your studies. Just like what I have said earlier, you need to continue living. Love your family and friends and continue to do your hobbies (like writing a blog) and continue studying until you become successful because the greatest revenge is success. Also, try to say it to your family and friends. I know it is hard but you will gonna laugh at it at the end of the day. This is optional but, why not talk to your crush. Even if it's hard to talk to people that didn't miss you, you will have some clarity with you and your crush too. But, you need to take this move months or years after you have been rejected. I've been rejected many times but, these are the things that make me forget being rejected.
Thank you for reading this blog. I hope you will gonna enjoy and appreciate this blog. I hope just like me, you are happy with yourself and your parent. Peace be with you. God bless you and your family, and just like a famous mantra, FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT.
Your Friend,
Ramueeeeeeeel
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